Here's The Suicide Note Left By EX-Ghost Hunters Member Brian Harnois On Facebook. Brian Harnois Was Found Alive and Safe Earlier Today... But Why The Cry For Attention? --- Haunted Society Paranormal News --- Paranormal News Feed
Monday, December 10th, 2012
Article By: Phillip Brunelle
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WARWICK, RI --- There was an emotional out-pour over the past 24-hours on social media sites after a disturbing suicide note was left on the personal Facebook page of EX-Ghost Hunters member Brian Harnois. The suicide note posted by Brian Harnois read as follows...
"I wanted to write this note to say goodbye to a certain few that need to know what happened to me. I have fucked up my life again to the point of no return this time. I am homeless, jobless, and penniless. I have 2 wonderful daughters who deserve a lot better than what I can give them, and deserve better in life than what I would ever be able to give them. I love them both very much and this goes out to them the most. I am sorry daddy is such an extreme fuck-up. I could never get my crap together and you both deserve better then this. I love you both very much and will always be there to see your accomplishments in life. Because I know you will both do amazing things. You both will probably never know the amount of love I have for you two and that is my fault. I have been an extreme mess for almost all of my 36 years on this earth and enough is enough. I have lied, stolen, and done some other really bad things, but the one thing I can say I did right was bringing you two into the world. I love you both babies and will miss you SO MUCH!!! I have not seen or talked to you both in over a week and it has killed me more and more every day. I am in a deep depression and know I will not come out of it. As for you Michelle, I know now more than ever that I was in the wrong for 90 percent of the 7 years you have known me. I don’t know if you will ever read this, but if someone could pass this on to her it would be great. I can’t call you because I am to afraid of what might be said as I know I can never have you back. You were my one true love. I realize that now more then ever. You were my soul mate and someone that I could have lived with forever. And to know I messed that up is to much for me to bare anymore. You were my world, and I shit all over you. I know it was weird the way we met but I think it was fate that we did. I am SO SORRY that I messed things up like I did. Please forgive me one day. I wanted to give so much to you but in the end I couldn’t even scrape two pennies together for you and that was the last straw. I love you Michelle, and I always will. Goodbye my love and goodbye my 2 darling babies. I will miss all 3 of you!!"
Following him leaving this message on Facebook, Brian Harnois was reported missing, leaving many family members, friends, and fans of Harnois and the Ghost Hunters show in shock and feeling helpless. Then, earlier today, it was announced that Brian Harnois was found safe and alive, leaving many people wondering if this was all a hoax, or a desperate plea for help.
The Warwick, Rhode Island police said the case is still under investigation, and no comment will be given at this time. Phillip Brunelle, news journalist and founder of Haunted Society, has learned that this is not the first time that Brian Harnois has done such a thing. The boy who cried wolf, and his troubled past, has cost Brian Harnois many relationships, friendships, and jobs, including his position as a paranormal investigator on the SyFy television shows Ghost Hunters and Ghost Hunters International.
While many people are relieved to hear the news of Brian Harnois being found alive and safe, we are currently looking into the details of this most recent cry for help, or attention, by Brian Harnois, looking back on his troubled timeline to understand what makes an average person, turned Ghost Hunters television star, go from being ordinary to stardom, back to ordinary again, and feeling the need to seek out attention of the limelight, no matter the cost or risk on his reputation.
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Comment by tammie heazlit on December 12, 2012 at 11:09pm I wish I could talk to Brian as a human being and only as a human being. Depression is about a chemical imbalance. And from what little I know, I'm going to cast a hypothesis, that there is more to it than just depression. There might be some other imbalance. The thing about mental illness is that it won't go away on its own, and there is help. AND there is no more anything wrong with being diagnosed with Mental Illness than any other kind, because its still physiological. Which means its treatable. With the right combination of Therapy and Rx, EVERYTHING can evolve. Getting on the right anti-depressant is key, however, it doesn't necessarily happen over night, and it takes work to understand. Depression ISN"T just about feeling down. Its also about being erratic. Its about being irritable.It can manifest as self sabotage. Its a complex disorder. Once someone who is afflicted with it learns to understand what the symptoms of their disease are, and if they're on medication, its much easier to recognize symptoms as symptoms and to not give in to what they are urging you to do/be. The one good thing about hitting rock bottom tho, is that there is only one direction to go, and that's up. It can be viewed as a tremendous opportunity. I can only hope that he receives the kind of therapy and support that leads him to see it as that, and to start to heal. I wish him many blessings and a life of growth and recovery and great personal success.
Comment by Cindy Nicole Douglas on December 11, 2012 at 9:27pm People that say they are going to commit suicide need to be taken seriously....not "left alone"...they truly are feeling cornered and hopeless. I really want him to get the love and support he needs to get out of the funk he thinks he's in. Everything on earth is temporary but suicide is permanent. There's no reset button on death. His daughters need him..I'm certain his family loves him dearly. He's in my thoughts n prayers.
Comment by Kay Brown on December 11, 2012 at 10:41am I AM SO GLAD THAT BRIAN HAS BEEN FOUND ! HE NEEDS ALL THE LOVE AND SUPPORT THAT WE CAN ALL GIVE HIM, ESPECIALLY THIS TIME OF YEAR ! MY HEART GOES OUT TO HIM AND HOPE HE CAN GET THE HELP THAT HE NEEDS ! THIS IS A CRY FOR HELP AND IF PEOPLE CAN NOT SEE THIS THEY ARE ONES THAT NEED HELP ! MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH HIM AND HIS FMAILY AND I KNOW THAT THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE THAT CAN HELP HIM GET THE HELP THAT HE NEEDS !
Comment by lori woodman on December 11, 2012 at 8:17am I'm glad he was found, And hope that he is able to find help that he needs. Depression is not a thing to play with.
May God bless Brian..
I am thankful for the posting of this, it only shows that you care and wanted everyone else to know.
Comment by Natalie M Bleau on December 11, 2012 at 6:42am I think this is really sad. Brian has problems and he needs help to solve them. I don't think it is a hoax it is his state of mind at the time. I hope he gets the help he needs as I understand fully how dangerous the sub conscious of the mind can be. God bless you Brian and keep you safe.
Comment by Ghost Seeker on December 10, 2012 at 10:43pm Personally, I don't see the need to post the note. Brian is having trouble and seeking help for it. Why can't we leave it at that and wish him the best?
Yes, he posted it on his page but that doesn't mean that everyone else should post it everywhere too.
Sending prayers and healing thoughts to you, Brian. You are loved and we wish the best for you always.
Comment by YayLindsey on December 10, 2012 at 9:40pm I'm an RN that has been working in the psychiatric field for about 5 years.
I've helped people fight these battles with depression and suicidal thoughts/intentions. I've sat with them as they've disclosed their plans and intentions to me. How everyone I've ever worked with is absolutely different-they all have something in common.
You've got to be in a really dark, sad, and heart breaking place to view suicide as your only option out. Imagine how it must feel to think that the only way things will be better is if you end it all, and that feeling is so strong that you're unable to see past it to see how it would affect your loved ones.
Whatever the reason he decided to take it public-it was a cry for help. Whether that cry was for someone to stop him, or the fact that he needs serious psychiatric support, if he thought this was the only way he could get the attention of his loved ones, or if he thought this would get him a few more minutes in the spotlight. Any way you look at it, he needs some help. I hope he gets it, for the sake of his kids.
Comment by Violet Riot on December 10, 2012 at 8:34pm Having battled depression myself since I was a teenager, I feel for him. But as a mother, I would never put my children through the hell of losing a parent to suicide. I just couldn't take my life...it's not just mine. It's my parents, my children's and my family and friends. If he posted it to Facebook, he is seeking attention and help. No matter how many times he does it. His daughters need him,and no matter what we've done in the past, we are doomed to repeat it until we learn the lesson we are supposed to and apply it. He obviously has support from friends and fans, and even his kids mother needs to step up and say she will be there for him. He needs to be reached out to. If he's homeless, can someone not offer their couch or extra bedroom ? Can someone not give him a chance to make a little money ? Especially if it could save his life ? Is everyone content to sit around and watch the drama play out until he actually kills himself ? I urge people who are close to him to intervene...show him love and support, get him some professional help, and be there for him. Otherwise you are only part of the problem. Brian Harnois...what have you learned from your mistakes ? Figure it out with counseling and leave the past behind. Every day is a new day to make better decisions than you did the day before. Accept help and support from those who reach out to you. Be present for your children. Only you can start the upward spiral in your life,but no one should have to do it alone. I wish you only the best and hope that you reach out and accept love from those who are offering it. You have 2 little girls who love you no matter what. To them you're not a fuck up, but their daddy. Don't you think you at least owe it to them to be healthy and happy and alive ? It takes strength to pull yourself up and out of rock bottom, but we all have it inside...we just need some help to find it sometimes. Death is the "easy" way out, but the one that leaves behind the most destruction and sorrow. Take it day by day, step by step, and you can make things better.
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Comment by Alexis E. McKenna on December 10, 2012 at 8:26pm I am so glad Brian is alive and safe again and Im glad he is getting some help from people are not being so "Judgemental" & "critical" of the guy. Some people are less able to handle life's ups and downs and need extra help coping with things, especially those who are prone to depression. Life is hard and Brian does not need people bad mouthing him and acting like they are so much more superior over him. Shut up and leave him alone, either you can make an attempt to reach out and support him in some way or just shut up.
Comment by James spencer Warfield on December 10, 2012 at 8:14pm I have often wondered how the average person handles "Fame" .. and then the loss of it? Ever noticed how most people referred to as "Over Night Sensations" actually have been in show business or schooling for it for at least 15 years before they are "Discovered?"
We all usually sort of pretend that we are in more control of our lives than we really could ever be. Maybe thoughts of suicide are just we mere humans indulging in a control fantasy?
"Suicide is a perminent soultion to a temporary problem." The act of killing yourself leaves tremendous emotion scars on those relatives and friends left behind, a very cruel thing to do to your children, and a terrible Parental example of how to solve one's problems. We all have problems. How "Happy" how much of the time were those ancients who lived before us? Were they "Happy" being cold, hungry, having to live in primative conditions of diesease and just daily annoyences of rashes, bugs, extreme weather condition with flimsey shelter, maybe we are spoiled thinking we will win millions and have a life that almost nobody ever really has, no matter who they are. Find who or what makes you happy and at peace and cherish it and share those thoughts with others.
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